11 Traits That Make A Woman Irresistible

What makes a woman irresistible to men? In this article, you’ll learn 11 traits that make a woman irresistible. Every man has at least one ideal type of woman in mind that he can see himself with and characteristics that make her irresistible to him.

We all know that physical beauty is good and gets attention from men but if it’s not matched with quality, then it isn’t enough for most men to decide to commit. Men see a lot of beautiful women on a daily basis on social media and so do you!

That’s good at first, eventually what men look for goes deeper than just the initial physical attraction. This is what makes a woman irresistible and keeps a man wanting more. A woman’s physical appearance is one way to get a man’s attention, but it doesn’t mean he will stick around. The physical attraction will get a man’s attention but internal attraction is what gets his intention.

When you have a man’s intentions you can sway his heart in your direction, making you irresistible. And here are 11 that you need:

1. Confidence

Confidence makes a woman super attractive. It’s a woman’s vibrant energy that speaks before she says one word.

Not to be confused with a false sense of confidence, where you’re confident in your possessions. This type of confidence is based on what you have and not who you are.

Real confidence says: “With or without the things I have, I’m an amazing woman.” This makes a man desire you and not what you have to offer.

Who you are is more than what you have and the cool thing about being confident is regardless of what you have or don’t have you know you’re the real prize.

2. You Make Everyone Better

Encouragement from a woman he actually likes, makes a man want to be even better. When a woman is truly confident, she is filled with encouragement and the ability to say the right words. Encouraging words and good energy create good feelings that we associate with the person who creates them.

When a man feels good in the presence of a woman he will want to keep her around.

You don’t have to “sing his praise” every time you see him, but irresistible women acknowledge the good qualities in others without being ashamed.

3. You Make Good Decisions

A woman who makes wise decisions appeals not only to a man’s intellect but as well to his loins. Kidding. But men love women who are decisive, it shows her trustworthiness.

Men don’t like to feel that they have to make every decision for their relationships. When a woman can make solid decisions, it says to a man “ this woman has our best interest in mind.”

Not only does being decisive make a woman irresistible but it also makes her a great partner. Men want women who can speak up and say what they want. This lets us know that we are dealing with a grown woman and not babysitting a little girl.

4. Your Open and Receptive

Every man wants a woman who is open and receptive to hearing him out. Being open allows you to understand a man and know what he needs to hear. Meaning in order to know a man you first have to be open to hearing what he has to say.

*Sidenote: So many women think that being submissive is being robotic and not having an opinion. True submission is about being receptive to the thoughts, ideas, opinions of others, not a Stepford Wife.

In order to have a true opinion, you first have to be open to the thoughts of others.

This is why being open is so irresistible to men, it not only says that you’re confident but also willing to accept the thoughts of others.

5. Your Faith Is Strong

Having confidence and faith in yourself is one thing, but having faith in a Higher Power is another. Whatever you have religious beliefs or not, having faith in something more expansive than yourself gives you a solid foundation.

He knows that she’s accountable to someone other than him. Especially if you share the same views on your beliefs. Women who have faith give a man confidence that their choices are faithful.

Not saying you have to go to church 7 days a week. Just that you have some sort of spiritual connection, makes a woman irresistible to men.

6. You’re Curious

Men find women irresistible when they are curious about life. I’m not talking about being nosey or Mrs. KIA (know-it-all) but being interested in how and why things work. To men, a curious woman is enjoyable to talk to and be around.

You have no clue how much of a breath of fresh air curiosity is, it says that you’re open and receptive to people that enter into your life. Being curious makes a woman quite irresistible

7. Kind And Generous

This goes without saying but no one likes a mean-spirited person. Men find women who are kind to irresistible like bees on honey. Kindness makes us feel welcomed and accepted.

Kindness isn’t a weakness, especially when it comes to what men look for in long-term relationships. Men want women who are nice and nice to look at.

“Plesant words are like a honeycomb, Sweetness to the soul and health to the bones.” Proverbs 16:24

8. You Offer Support

There are two things that men can’t get enough of; one is encouragement and the second is support. We always hear that women love compliments, for men a close equivalent is being supportive.

We’re dreamers, always wanting to take over the world, no matter how far-fetched it may seem. So having a woman who is supportive gives us the confidence we need to try and succeed.

Being supportive doesn’t mean that you don’t offer different perspectives. Actually offering a different perspective or possible outcomes is a great way to support.

Especially if you let us know that you’re offering support by giving different scenarios that we haven’t taken into consideration.

9. You’re Cool, Calm, & Collected

Being cool, calm, and collected means you don’t get flustered easily, and you have a “never let them see you sweat.” attitude. Why? Because you’re confident and have faith that things will work out in the end.

This goes a long way in relationships because he will want to make sure you aren’t going to fly off the handle and start a fistfight at the grocery store. All because of a coupon.

Nope, we like a woman who’s cool and isn’t easily rattled by what people do or don’t do. We want to feel that the woman we’re with is classy and has self-control.

10. You Know How To Have Fun

Women who can just let their hair down and have fun are very irresistible! Look at the guy in the picture… That woman ain’t going nowhere! Not only are they having fun, but who knows if they’re really even together. They could just be models.

The moral of the story is–have fun and be fun to hang around. Don’t take yourself too seriously.

Being able to enjoy yourself and just let loose makes a woman irresistible to a man because it shows him you’re human and not superficial. Men can’t resist you when they feel you’re relatable, personable, and fun.

11. You’re Very Likable

Men like women who are liked by other people. Especially people that he trusts, if momma likes you, he’s really going to like you. If his friends like you, he’s going to like you even more also.

We’re programmed to like what other people like. Mainly because people trust others to see angles that are usually hidden from us. When someone we trust observes and expresses things they like about you, it makes us like you even more. So be friendly!

See, you are irresistible! You just have to know how to turn it on and not overthink things. I believe you have all of the characteristics outlined in this post so don’t get caught up trying to be someone else.

Men like women who are natural and don’t have to force themselves to be someone they’re not. To me, that is the key to getting a man to see your true irresistible qualities.

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